Lift And Carry Pics My Arms Seem So Big, How Can I Get Them To Be Smaller?

My arms seem so big, how can I get them to be smaller? - lift and carry pics

And I get up: I carry my 18 pounds. Son. He can not even walk.
PHOTOS:
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b147/Leigh615ann/Picture11-1.jpg
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http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b147/Leigh615ann/Picture13-2.jpg